Dating Information

The Best First Date


First dates cause anxiety and thoughts of disastrous and embarrassing moments. We all dread the awkward but necessary first date. It comes with the territory when looking for love. But it isn't necessary to feel this way. You can have the best first date experience with every new person you go out with from now on. Here are a few tips on how you can actually enjoy yourself and possibly make yourself even more attractive on each first date.

Don't bring your expectations or baggage with you. The last thing your date wants to hear about are your past relationships, ex's and the problems you had with other people. You not only sound like a whiner who can't let go, but you also make yourself sound critical. If you also list what you think a relationship or person should have been, you are setting the other person up for failure because you are obviously judgmental. Your past is your past and it should stay there. You are with a person who has many aspects of their personality you can spend countless hours exploring. Look at it as an adventure instead of like a job application. Enjoy each new thing you learn about the person even if you know you don't want to see them again. You never know what you will learn or if you have found a new friend.

When you leave to meet your date, remind yourself that you are your own person and this is a great opportunity for someone to get to know who you are. You are a person with dreams, ideas and intelligent thoughts that can share so much with the right person. Walk into your date comfortable in your own skin. Maintain your happy composure and keep the conversation light but honest.

Don't talk about yourself in any negative terms. If you point out what you consider to be your shortcomings and flaws, they will be seen. They might have only been visible to you before you called attention to them. You will also be obvious in your insecurities and this can make other people feel uncomfortable. This is not a feeling you want someone you are interested in to associate with you.

While it is absolutely acceptable to participate in conversation, remember to be just as good a listener. It means so much to people when they feel as if they have someone's undivided attention and they are important enough to have your focus. When making a comment on a topic or answering a question, you are letting them know you find them interesting and worth the time and thought. This courtesy is not always noticed on the surface, but when they think back on the date, they will feel as if you truly cared about who they are and what they have to say.

Finally, show them that you have a sense of humor and have fun. Laughter and humor is attractive on its own and can only help ease the tension of a stressful meeting situation. While you might not meet 'the one' on your next first date, you will know you gave it your all and the next one won't be so bad.

www.jaters.com - Free Jewish dating, Jewish singles & Jewish matchmaking service

Yair Czitrom is the owner and webmaster of http://www.jaters.com - An experienced online dater that took his dating knowledge and web skills to help other daters/singles.


MORE RESOURCES:

In US, dating has a violent side too
Times of India, India - 13 hours ago
She and her colleagues at the Medical University of South Carolina, Charleston, found that teenagers who said they'd been the victims of dating violence ...
7 universities pitch case for flagship status Houston Chronicle
all 5 news articles


Summer Session ‘dating Sim’ Game Debuts
PC World - 13 hours ago
Tycoon Games has teamed up with Hanako Games to release Summer Session, a "dating sim" game for the Mac and Windows. It costs $19.95, and a playable demo is ...


Macworld

Summer Session ‘dating sim’ game debuts
Macworld, CA - 13 hours ago
by Peter Cohen, Macworld.com Tycoon Games has teamed up with Hanako Games to release Summer Session, a “dating sim” game for the Mac and Windows. ...


Lonely without love? Try virtual dating!
Times of India, India - 1 hour ago
Some 14 per cent of people quizzed said they were dating a partner who lived miles away. More than three-quarters of them said it was now far easier to ...


E! Online

SELENA GOMEZ - GOMEZ: 'I'M NOT DATING JONAS BROTHER NICK'
Contactmusic.com, UK - 1 hour ago
They've become really good friends of mine, but I'm not dating any of them." And she has set her sights on another young hunk: "I have a crush on Shia ...
Selena Gomez Dating Miley Cyrus Ex Nick Jonas TransWorldNews (press release)
Nick Jonas and Selena Gomez 'have been dating for months' South Asian Women's Forum
Nick Jonas & Selena Gomez: Are They Dating? People Magazine
OK! Magazine - Chicago Tribune
all 27 news articles


Special sex ed course effective for diabetic girls
Reuters India, India - Jul 22, 2008
NEW YORK (Reuters Health) - A self-instructional program on reproductive health can help teen girls with type 1 diabetes better understand the risks ...


Dating violence can affect teenagers too
San Diego Union Tribune, United States - 15 hours ago
... researchers found that 2.7 percent of girls and 0.6 percent of boys said they had been the victim of serious dating violence – including physical abuse, ...


Mobile dating|
جمعية الصحافيين العرب في ألمانيا, Germany - 14 hours ago
Looking for Dating? Search over 15000 sites with one click. Your source for everything under the sun! Looking for Dating? Search over 15000 sites with one ...


Heath Ledger's ex-fiancee Michelle Williams 'dating Hollywood ...
Daily Mail, UK - 33 minutes ago
A US magazine reports the former Dawson's Creek actress, 27, has started dating film director Spike Jonze, ex-husband of Lost In Translation director Sofia ...


SantaBanta.com

No dating, I only believe in mating
SantaBanta.com, India - 59 minutes ago
We asked her whether she is dating anyone, to which she replied, “I don’t believe in dating, I believe in mating”. She boasts a lot about her sexy and ...

Dating - Google News

home | site map
© 2006